SUGGESTED INTRODUCTION Our guest is physician and author Colleen Ann Murphy, MD. She is board-certified in integrative medicine, a Full Member of The Menopause Society, and a former Chief Medical Officer and Chair of Medicine. Her book is Your Fire Years: The Perimenopause and Menopause Book Your Doctor Never Read. Today we’re talking about the sleep women aren’t getting, the sex they’d like to be having, and the questions that deserve a full conversation. INTERVIEW STARTERS The sex she’d like to be having. How can a woman separate pain, desire and relationship concerns when she talks with her clinician? Audience takeaway: A clearer sentence to bring to an appointment; no one-size-fits-all prescription. Resource: https://unpausedclub.com/sex-hurts The appointment she rehearsed in the car. What should she write down so the important question actually gets asked? Audience takeaway: Three concerns, a dated symptom record and one question to ask before leaving. Resource: https://unpausedclub.com/run-the-visit She earned her place. Her care should keep up. What can clinical care and practical workplace support each contribute? Audience takeaway: A dated symptom record, an appointment plan and a clearer support conversation. Resource: https://unpausedclub.com/brain-fog-1 The 3 a.m. group chat. What belongs in the conversation about disrupted sleep in midlife? Audience takeaway: Track what woke her and bring the pattern to a clinician. Resource: https://unpausedclub.com/waking-at-3-am-1 drmurphy@unpausedclub.com https://unpausedclub.com/the-press-room Updated October 22, 2026